February 18, 2016
Grief is an odd emotion to understand. It is deeply personal. It has been my experience that grief never truly goes away. It changes but it is always there.
Our family has continued to grow and too even blossom. I still don’t (completely) understand all of the whys. However, I am finally at peace with The Event.
To see the love and joy that is in our family now truly blesses my heart.
We will never forget that tragic night when we were notified of Buddy’s death. I can still hear and see it all in my mind’s eye.
I remember you Buddy. I remember you well, my friend.
“I have come to understand that, sometimes the Lord calls our loved ones home when they are ready, not when we are ready.” Pastor Tracie Baird
February 19, 2015
In spite of our grief we can still see God’s faithfulness and goodness.
Although we are still grief stricken, life moves on. We are thankful for new seasons, new life and new relationships.
I can still see it all (vividly) unfolding in front of me. I feel that helpless feeling. I can hear that moaning… that deep guttural moaning. The screaming and tears are still so real to me.
However, I am now able to see past the profound heartbreak, past the eternal events of that fateful night. I am able to better (not completely) understand part of His Divine plan for our family.
Here now, eight years later, we still grieve his untimely death. But we celebrate the life he once lived. We celebrate life with those left behind because that is what Buddy would want and expect. He died so that others could live. So live we must. Enjoy life we will. And remember that our American Hero will always be with us in some way or another.
Remembering the husband, the father, the son, the friend.
Saluting the Soldier:
SGT BUDDY JAMES DOC HUGHIE
KIA, FEBRUARY 19, 2007
TWO BRONZE STAR MEDALS (V)